The Growth Declaration of Lesbian Women

Dear you, have you ever tossed and turned at night, doubting yourself because of your "different" sexual orientation? Have you been swaying between gains and losses in a relationship, treating love as the sole sustenance of your life? It's time to break free from these shackles and start writing your own leading lady's script.

Embracing your true self is the most touching form of rebellion.
Liking girls is never a "mistake" that requires an apology. Just as there are both tall oaks and graceful willows in the forest, the wonder of the world lies precisely in its diversity. When you can calmly accept your sexual orientation and no longer feel ashamed or uneasy about it, you will discover an unprecedented sense of ease and freedom. Remember, the real you is more worthy of love than any pretended version of yourself.

Choose a circle that nourishes you and stay away from relationships that deplete you.
Those who question and belittle you don't deserve to occupy your precious life. Look for sisters who make you feel at ease. They will understand the sparkle in your eyes and empathize with your occasional vulnerability. Participate in LGBTQ+ book clubs and join female growth communities. In these safe havens, you will not only gain a sense of belonging but also the strength to keep moving forward.

Investing in yourself is the most reliable business.
Devote your energy to things that help you grow: refine your professional skills, cultivate hobbies that immerse you completely, or simply calm down and read a good book. When you are proficient in your professional field and your paintings are appreciated by more and more people, you will find that external judgments can no longer shake your core. Financial independence and spiritual independence are always your most solid armor.

Setting boundaries is the highest form of self-love.
Kindness doesn't mean compromising without limits. In a relationship, clearly express your needs and boundaries. In social interactions, bravely refuse requests that make you uncomfortable. This may cause some people to leave, but those who remain are the ones who truly respect and cherish you. Remember, a healthy relationship should make you feel nourished, not drained.

Dear, becoming the leading lady doesn't mean you have to be perfect. It means hoping that you can live a comfortable and free life. There's no need to rush. Growth is a gentle transformation. When you learn to cherish yourself, the whole world will come to cherish you. On this journey, you are never alone—we are all here, witnessing your shining light.