The Top 10 Darkest Moments for Bisexuals​

The guy I used to like started going out with the girl I used to like. I stood there watching, feeling like a total outsider—so awkward, and my heart hurt.​

People always say, “Lucky bisexuals, you can date both guys and girls!” But who gets it? When we look for someone to be with, it’s about getting on well, clicking with each other—not having more people to pick from.​

I tried to be nice and tell people about bisexuality, and all the different ways people can love. Then one day, I saw their chats by accident—they called me a “weirdo poster child.” All that kindness, and they thought I was strange.​

I’ve never lied when I’m in a relationship. But out of nowhere, someone calls me a fake—says I’m just pretending to be gay. I couldn’t feel more wronged if I tried.​

I want to tell my family about who I am, but I’m scared they’ll hate it. If I don’t, I’m stuck with this heavy feeling, like carrying a bomb. I’m terrified it’ll blow up our family one day.​

When I read books or watch shows, there’s hardly ever a bisexual main character. And when there is, they’re just there for a minute—they never show what it’s really like to be bisexual, how it feels.​

People keep asking, “Do you only like girls who act like guys?” It’s so annoying! Who I like isn’t about looking or acting like a guy or girl. It’s about whether I like them.​

All the gossip and hate scares me. I just want to find another bisexual person—someone who gets it, who can support me. But I’ve waited so long, and there’s no one.​

Ten years ago, I went online and people pushed me away. Ten years later, I still feel like I don’t fit in—like I’m invisible.​

I wanted a song that says how hurt, stuck, and confused I feel. I checked every music app, but there’s nothing. It hurts so much.