A Lesbian's Shining Moment: I Collided with Confidence

"I used to live wrapped in an 'invisible armor': I’d avoid my colleagues’ stares when wearing neutral shirts, always lock the door before video-calling my girlfriend, and never dared to post couple photos—like hiding my lesbian identity was the only way to feel 'safe.' Back then, I was like a curled-up mimosa, until short videos and live streams changed everything." — Shared by Xiao Wei, a LesPark user.

The change started last spring. I posted a short video of my short-hair outfits on LesPark, and one comment struck a chord with me: "You’re so cool, sis! I want to cut my hair too, but I’m scared people will say I ‘don’t look like a girl.’" Turns out, so many of us are trapped in the chains of "fear of judgment." In that moment, I thought: Maybe I should share more—live streams and short videos are the perfect outlet. That’s my first takeaway: When you’re lonely, speak up, and you’ll always meet like-minded people.

For my first live stream, I gripped my phone so tight my palms were sweating. I only dared to face my desk, not even showing my face. For the first ten minutes, there were only three viewers—one of them was my girlfriend’s secondary account. I was rambling when a live comment saved the day: "I also have short hair and get criticized for it. Where did you buy that shirt?" Those words relaxed me. We talked from outfits to dealing with weird looks, and before I knew it, an hour had passed. After the stream, she sent me a private message: "After hearing you talk, I’ll dare to wear my jacket tomorrow." That night, I looked in the mirror and realized: My taste, my relationship, my identity—none of these are "shameful secrets." This experience taught me: Your courage can be a tiny light that illuminates others.

Later, I started sharing more authentic daily moments: baking with my girlfriend, talking about emotional struggles, and ranting about stereotypical labels. Once, I talked about "the tug-of-war with my family over coming out"—how my mom went from resisting to secretly sending us specialty foods. The live comments flooded in instantly: "My mom did the same!" "I’m not alone in this." A girl messaged me saying she’d written a letter to her mom after watching my video, and her mom replied, "Let’s think about it." I gradually understood: The camera isn’t just a tool for showing off—it’s a bridge connecting kindred spirits and passing on courage. What we share are the struggles and perseverance only we can understand.

To me, the "shining moments" of live streaming aren’t grand gestures—they’re small acts of recognition: Someone saving my travel guides, my career tips helping new graduates, or people saying they feel healed when watching me draw quietly. These responses are like pebbles, paving the way to my confidence. My biggest takeaway: Confidence doesn’t come out of nowhere. It takes root and grows when you’re needed and acknowledged. Who knew my experiences and thoughts could have the power to touch others?

Now, I’m totally comfortable showing my face on camera. I even started the "Twinkling Light Support Group" with sisters from my live streams—we chat about outfits, growth, and self-identity every week. A girl who once "dared not wear dresses" posted a short video of herself in a floral dress last week: "Thank you, sisters. I’m beautiful too." Looking at her, I understood the true meaning of "shining": It’s not about being a perfect role model. It’s about daring to show your true self, then using your courage to light up others.

I know many sisters are just like I used to be—you have a light in your heart, but you’re scared it will be extinguished. But you don’t need to change yourself. All you need is a safe space to shine—and LesPark is exactly that. Here, there’s no scrutiny, only resonance; no judgment, only encouragement. Some gain followers with makeup tutorials, some heal others with singing, some break prejudices through education. We take off our armor and reclaim our confidence, knowing there are like-minded applause waiting on the other side of the camera.

If you’re stuck in the confusion of "not daring to be yourself," come to LesPark! Post a short video of your dinner, start a live stream to talk about your favorite shows—don’t worry about being awkward or unpolished. What’s most precious here is "authenticity." Stand in front of the camera, and you’ll collide with confidence you never knew you had. More importantly, you’ll meet a group of sisters who will shine with you. I’ll be waiting for you in my LesPark live stream—let’s live the life we love, together!