我形容不出來我有多難受，我只覺得現在很累，不是身體上的累，是無法傾訴的委屈，是情緒失控的自責，沒有情緒，就在那裡靜地發呆，一會兒相通了，一會兒又想不通了，一會兒覺得自己的事愈靜默想，，一會兒覺得天大的事能活著就好，一會兒又覺得壓抑得喘不上氣，總是莫名的煩躁，莫名的失落，然後再静静的崩潰，再静静的自癒。 I can't describe how bad I feel. I just feel so tired right now, not physically tired, but with unspeakable grievances and self-blame for losing control of my emotions. I never knew that a person could be so sad that they have no words, no emotions, just sitting there in a daze. One moment they understand, the next they can't understand. One moment they feel that nothing is more important than being alive, and the next they feel so suffocated. They are always inexplicably irritable and inexplicably lost, and then they quietly break down, and then quietly heal themselves. 人不用一直做正確的選擇，偶爾也要做喜歡的選擇，與其成為更好的自己，不如更好的成為自己！胸中自有青山在，何必隨人看桃花！自有一條心路走，何慕他人路閃光！ 人人路途千萬條，適合自己方有得！People don't always have to make the right choices;occasionally, they should make choices they like.Instead of becoming a better version of yourself, it's better to be a better version of yourself!With a mountain of green mountains in your heart, why follow others to admire peach blossoms? Walk your own path; why envy the brilliance of others' paths?There are countless paths for everyone; only what suits you will bring you success! 得不到我想要的，我就會得到更好的，結局如果不是好事，那麼一定是好故事，一切發生皆有利於我，萬般經歷皆滋養我，人生不是得到，就是學到，凡事要嘛成功，要嘛成長，對了我就慶祝，錯了我就進步，人生沒有白走的路，每一步都算數，但看風雨深似岸，我心所至既桃源。If I don't get what I want, I'll get something better. If the ending isn't good, it'll definitely be a good story. Everything that happens is for my benefit, and every experience nourishes me. Life is about either gaining or learning; everything is either success or growth. If I'm right, I celebrate; if I'm wrong, I learn from it. No path in life is wasted; every step counts. Despite the storms, my heart finds its paradise. 年輕的你會為此驕傲，年長的你會為此感到欣慰，現在的你會因此安心，對得起過去的自己，不負未來的自己，現在的你內心平靜，就是最好的決定。The young you will be proud of this, the older you will be gratified by it, the present you will feel at peace because of it, you have done right by your past self, you will not let down your future self, and the peace in your heart now is the final decision. 旺自己也是有方法的，1:見到人話不要多說，遇到事情要少插手。 2:別人在背後評價你，當故事聽就算了，不必裝心裡。 3:情緒穩定、有事心不亂、無事心不空。 4:不要靠近免費的東西，免費是因為你還看不懂代價。 5:永遠不要提前預支煩惱，活在當下才最重要。 6，永遠不要試圖改變一個人，你介入誰的因果、你就是背負誰的命運。 7 讓自己快樂起來，越快樂磁場越強，好運自然旺。There are ways to improve your luck: 1. Don't talk too much to people, and don't interfere in other people's affairs. 2. When others talk about you behind your back, just listen to the stories and move on; don't take them to heart. 3. Maintain emotional stability; stay calm when things are going well, and don't feel empty when things are peaceful. 4. Don't go near things that are free; they're free because you don't understand the cost yet. 5. Never borrow trouble in advance; living in the present is the most important thing. 6. Never try to change someone; if you interfere in someone's karma, you are carrying their fate. 7. Make yourself happy; the happier you are, the stronger your magnetic field, and good luck will naturally follow. 不要回應別人的惡意，不要陷入自證的陷阱。 別人朝你潑髒水，你就把盆遞回去，詆毀你的人不在乎真相，他只是想看你狼狽的模樣。 解釋就是入局，自證等於認輸，被中傷別急著證明清白，先質問對方證據何在。 誰主張誰舉證，越冷靜越自清。 藉他的力，打他的局，用魔法打敗魔法，就是最高級的反殺。 你永遠餵不飽別人的偏見？ Don't respond to others' malice, and don't fall into the trap of self-justification. If someone throws mud at you, hand them the pot back. Those who slander you don't care about the truth; they just want to see you make a fool of yourself. Explaining is entering the game, and self-justification is admitting defeat. When slandered, don't rush to prove your innocence; first, question the other party's evidence. The burden of proof lies with the accuser; the calmer you are, the clearer your name will be. Use their power against them, break their trap, and defeat magic with magic—that's the highest level of counterattack. Can you ever truly satisfy someone's prejudice? 所有關係的本質，都是一場價值交換，站在頂峰有多少人仰望你，落在谷底就有多少人貶低你，利益吸引有多少人跟隨你，好處斷盡就有多少人拋棄你，用得著你的時候好話說盡，你沒價值的時候轉身無情，得意時朋友認識了你，落難時你重新認識了朋友，莫嘆人情薄如紙，自古人心衡利弊，種自己的花，生自己的根，花香自有蝶相逢，自強何須藉東風，人情冷暖，努力加餐。The essence of all relationships is an exchange of value.At the peak, many look up to you; at the bottom, just as many belittle you. Attracted by self-interest, many follow you; when the benefits end, just as many abandon you. They'll shower you with sweet words when they need you; when you're no longer valuable, they'll turn their backs on you without mercy. In times of success, friends get to know you; in times of trouble, you get to know your friends again.Don't lament that humanr relationships are as thin as paper; since ancient times, people have weighed gains and losses.Plant your own flowers, take root in your own land. Fragrance attracts butterflies; self-reliance doesn't need a favorable wind. The fickleness of human relationships—just keep striving.#2025年度創作者# #18秒讓你愛上我# #我很滿意我自己# #請和這樣的我戀愛吧# #我的live就長這樣# #和生活碰個杯# #你喜歡的樣子我都有# #今天妳是什麽emoji# #把生活拍出電影感#