LesPark New User Guide
As a new LesPark user, you’re probably excited to meet like-minded people—but you might also face these frustrations: your profile gets no views, conversations fizzle out after matching, or you hit it off online but can’t make an in-person meetup happen. This guide will take you from beginner to pro, helping you build a high-quality social circle step by step.
Step 1: Lay the Foundation—Let Fellow Fans Find You Easily
Core Goal: Present yourself clearly, learn platform features, and cut down on meaningless interactions.
Create a High-Match Profile
Your profile is your first impression—focus on authenticity + specificity:
Profile Picture: Use a clear, natural photo of yourself. Complete real-name verification to boost trust and visibility.
Bio: Sum up your identity, interests, and goals in 3 lines or less. Example: “25 y/o office worker | Into female-led films & cycling | Looking for local buddies.”
Interest Tags: Choose specific tags over vague ones—they’ll help you match with people who share your exact hobbies.
Master the 3 Core Features
Match Page: Set your preferences (location, age, interests) first for more accurate recommendations.
Feed: Spend 10 minutes scrolling daily and leave detailed comments. Post one lighthearted update every day to attract private messages.
Topic Forum: Follow interest-based topics and join the conversation—it’s the fastest way to find your people.
New User Don’ts
Don’t post ads or personal private info.
Never send money or explicit photos to anyone.
Don’t leave your profile blank or fill it with generic fluff.
Step 2: Interact Efficiently—From Matching to Smooth Conversations
Core Goal: Find 10–15 active chat partners, and narrow it down to 3–5 people to focus on.
Swipe Mindfully, Not Randomly
Check someone’s profile and posts before swiping to make sure your interests align. Prioritize local users—it’s easier to meet up offline later.
Icebreaker Formula: Reference Info + Build Rapport + Ask a Question
Ditch the awkward “Hi” and try these instead:
Interest-based: “You love My Brilliant Friend too? What’s your favorite scene?”
Post-based: “That cycling route you shared looks awesome—where is that greenway?”
These openers will get you way more responses.
Keep the Conversation Going: From Strangers to Friends
Two-way interaction: If they say they love handcrafts, follow up with “Pottery or resin art?” and share a quick story about your own hobbies.
Shift to casual topics after 2–3 chats. After about a week, try low-pressure interactions like watching a show together or having a voice chat.
Step 3: Move from Online to Offline—Strengthen Relationships & Expand Your Circle
Core Goal: Turn online friends into real-life buddies, and grow your social circle naturally.
How to Pick Your Key Contacts
Active responders: They reply with meaningful messages, not one-word answers.
Shared values: They want real connections, not just online small talk.
Consistent info: Their actions match their profile—they’re reliable and trustworthy.
Offline Meetup Guide (Safety First!)
For your first meetup, choose a public place (café, mall, etc.) and tell a friend your plans. Pick a relaxed activity in advance, like “checking out a female artists’ exhibition + grabbing light snacks.” End the meetup with a friendly follow-up to leave a good impression.
If one-on-one meetups feel intimidating, join an official local LesPark meetup first—group settings are way more laid-back.
Practical Ways to Expand Your Circle
Start a group in the Topic Forum: Example: “Weekend Female Film Screening | Chaoyang, Beijing | Max 3 people.”
Make friends at offline events: Be bold—just say “Wanna add each other? Let’s hang out again sometime!” to build connections quickly.
Couple’s Feature: Once you and your crush have liked each other, you can enter the Couple’s Corner. Enjoy your private space together, and learn how to interact from other couples on the platform.
Open LesPark now and start with optimizing your profile! May you meet like-minded sisters here and enjoy warm, safe, and genuine social experiences.
