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Nicole Snow
10天前
"Am I difficult?"
I often catch myself asking that question. Not after every disagreement, but after I've apologized for needing reassurance.
After I explained myself in three different ways, I still felt misunderstood. After I'd left a conversation wondering if I should have asked for less, said less, felt less.
It's strange how quickly we turn ourselves into the problem. How easily can we start editing our personalities instead of asking whether we are simply in the wrong room.
I've put so much work into making myself clear to others that I kinda forgot to think about whether anyone was really trying to understand me.
Maybe I am difficult for some people.
Just like how some people are difficult for me. But I don't think that's a failure. I think that's what happens when two people speak different emotional languages.
These days, I don't ask myself, "Am I too much?" as often.
I ask, "Do I feel safe enough to be myself here?" The answer to that question has told me far more than the first one ever did.
Credit to @manseeesthetics on Instagram. #beyourself# # #
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T’thiP
4月前
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